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Ian Mason(1) (2) was born. date and place
unknown. Parents: Ralph Mason and Sue Loakes.
Jill Louise Mason(1) (2) was born on 22 Oct 1961
in London. Parents: Frederick William Mason and Sylvia Pauline Cooper .
Children were: Rachel Layram, Amanda Layram.
Joseph Lewis Mason(1) (2) was born on 5 Oct 1998 in
Milton Keynes General Hospital. Parents: Nigel Mason and June Claire Backhouse .
Nigel
Robert Mason(1) (2) was born on 7 Jan 1967 in
Ewfield Road, Willesden. He was a Paramedic with Two Shires Ambulance Service. Parents: Frederick William Mason and Sylvia Pauline
Cooper.
He was married to June Claire Backhouse in 1998 in the Registry Office, Fenny Stratford, Bletchley, Milton Keynes. Children were: Harry Robert Mason, Joseph Lewis Mason.
Ralph
Stephen Mason(1) (2) was born on 8 Jul 1955 in
London. Parents: Frederick William Mason and Sylvia
Pauline Cooper .
Children were: Ian Mason, Ryan Mason.
Ryan Mason (1)(2) was born date and place
unknown.. Parents: Ralph Mason and Sue
Loakes.
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Edith May Matthews (1) (2)born abt 1886
(see note below) She died 18 October 1918 of
Influenza & Pneumonia at 21 Colegate Terrace, Chatham, Kent. (This would have been the
"Great Flue Epidemic" of 1918 when thousands died). She was buried on 24 October
1918 in Chatham Cemetery, Section PP Grave number 17. The grave was not purchased by
the family and is classified as a Public Un-purchased Grave. Edith was the
first wife of Herbert
Rowe (married 9 November 1912 at St Matthias Church, Canning Town in the Parish of West
Ham). At the time of her marriage she was living at 197 Beckton Road, London E.16.
Her parents were: William Henry Matthews
Children were: Arthur Herbert Rowe.
Note from Brian 25 October1999. Jean & I finally traced the unmarked grave to the old Chatham, Maidstone Road Cemetery. There are four other persons with her (non related).. We are arranging for a marker to be placed on the grave with the names of all who are interred there.
Birth: As far as we can ascertain Edith May was born September 1886 in Herriard Abreford, Hants. FreeBMD gives the reference as Basingstoke 2c 2[09]5 but 1837online.com gives the reference as Basingstoke 2o 205. As this is a photo copy of the actual indexes I would think that this is the reference; I shall confirm when I have obtained Birth Certificate
In the 1901 Census she is shown as aged 14, a General Domestic Servant to
Margaret McLuskey, a widow aged 78, both residing at 13 West Stratton,
Micheldever, Hants
Source: 1901 Census - RG13 Piece 1080 folio 21 page 13 schedule No: 93.
Children were: Edith May Matthews,
At the time of his daughter Edith's marriage on 9 November 1912 he was living
at 197 Beckton Road, London, E.16 where his occupation on her marriage
certificate states that he was a Bailiff
Parents were: Harold Charles Patrick Mayer and Doris Evelyn D'Cunha
Doris
Evelyn Mayers formerly D'Cunha was born 7 June 1904 in Bina, India. She
was Baptised on 30 June 1904 at the Sacred Heart Church, Jhansi, India the
officiating priest being Fr Raphael O.C.
Her father's profession as shown was Assist. Station Master
Source: True extract from the Baptism Register of the Sacred Heart Church,
Volume 1, page 44, No: 564
Parents were: Alfred or Avelin (Avelyn) D'Cunha and Sara(h) D'Cunha
I am not sure of her father's first name; .on her Baptism Certificate is is
shown as Avelin but on her Marriage Certificate to Harold Leslie Garrett
it is shown as Alfred the same applies to her mother's first name Sara.
She married Harold Charles Patrick
Mayers at St Xavier Church of Rome, Poona, India on 20 November 1923.
His is shown as a bachelor aged 28, an Electrical Engineer residing at
Ujjain, Poona
Source: Secretary of State for Commonwealth Relations in whose custody is the
Register of Marriages solemnised at St Xavier Church.
She married Harold Leslie Garrett in the Parochial Church of St Ignatius, Kirkee, Poona 3, India on 15 May 1931. The copy of the Marriage Certificate was taken from the Parochial Register of the Church of St Ignatius. His profession is shown as that of Soldier. She is shown as the widow of Harold Mayers
Children were: Eric Harold Garrett
Douglas
Mayers was born 28 May 1930 in Poona, India,.
Parents were: Harold Charles Patrick Mayer and Doris Evelyn D'Cunha
Harold
Charles Patrick Mayers was born 15 August 1894 at Girgaum, Bombay, India
and was Baptised at Griguam, Bombay on 2 September 1894. His date of death is
unknown but was before 1931.
Source of Birth and Baptism: Secretary of State for Commonwealth Relations in
whose custody is the Register of Baptisms Bombay Vol.72 Folio 21 No 21725.
Parents were: William Eugene Mayers and Esther Attonet Mayers
He married Doris Evelyn D'Cunha at
St Xavier Church of Rome, Poona, India on 20 November 1923.
His is shown as a bachelor aged 28, an Electrical Engineer residing at
Ujjain, Poona
Source: Secretary of State for Commonwealth Relations in whose custody is the
Register of Marriages solemnised at St Xavier Church.
Children were: Douglas Mayers, Sidney Mayers, Audrey Mayers, William Mayers
Parents were: Harold Charles Patrick Mayer and Doris Evelyn D'Cunha
Parents were: Harold Charles Patrick Mayer and Doris Evelyn D'Cunha
Veronica Grace McDairmid(1) (2) was born on 8 Jun 1938 in
Exeter.. She married David Yeo
Children were: Jayne Yeo, Diane Yeo, Allan Yeo.
William Bernard McLean(1) (2) was born 28 September
1943 in the British Hospital for Mothers and Babies, Samuel Street, Woolwich. An
interesting story regarding Bernard's names. He was named William after both
Grandfathers and Bernard after General (as he was then) Montgomery. Apparently my
Uncle Tom didn't consult Bin about naming Bernard "William" and she was not best
pleased. Hence he has always been known as Bernard. He went to Eltham College.
After leaving school at eighteen he went straight to London Transport as a
sponsored student for Keel University where he obtained his degree in technology. He has a
dry sense of humour and is a mine of information having kept a diary containing family
events since he was a young man..
Parents: Thomas McLean and Winifred (Bin) Alice Harrison.
Thomas McLean(1) (2) was born 20 September
1896 in Ballymena, Co. Antrim
N. Ireland. He died 27 June 1988. He was buried in Herne Bay
Cemetery, Herne Bay, Kent. He was a Soldier & Policeman, War Department in India &
Woolwich..
He was married to Winifred (Bin) Alice Harrison 13 May 1939. Children were: Bernard McLean.
Angus Gordon McTaggart was born abt. June 1895
in Greenwich (Free BMD June 1895 Greenwich Vol 1d, page 1094) and died 1958
He married Nellie (Cissie) Trampleasure date
and place not yet known
Children were: Elsie McTaggart
Elsie
Eleanore McTaggart (Nobbie) was born 22 July 1914 in Camberwell, London
and died 22 January 1987 in Whistable, Kent
She married Frederick William Backhouse 26 February 1938 place not yet known
Parents were: Angus McTaggart and Nellie Trampleasure
Jess
Morgan was born in Wales on date unknown, she was married to Charles Kingdon
(Senr). She died in Plumstead, London, SE18 abt. 1943
Children were: Jess Kingdon, Charles Kingdon, Elsie Kingdon, Win Kingdon, Verdon Kingdon:
Elizabeth
Muggeridge was born place and date not yet known. She married
George Kelvie
on 3 May 1882 at Malling, Kent
Additional Source re marriage: Free BMD: Malling, June, 1882, Volume 2a,
page893
Children were: Arthur Kelvie (there are I believe 7 other children but as yet I do not know details)
Elizabeth Mummery
was born probably at Great Chart on an unknown date. She married Stephen Briggs on 16 April 1803
Children were: Stephen Briggs (b.1802), Eliza Briggs, Mary Briggs, Richard Briggs, George Briggs,
William Briggs,
Stephen Briggs (b.1809)
Sheila Nash (Unknown
maiden name)(1) (2)
was born Ireland date unknown and married Jack Nash date unknown
following the death of his first wife.
After Jack's death Sheila moved back to her home in Dublin, Ireland. I haven't seen her
since Jack's funeral. and I remember her as a wonderful, soft spoken, kind woman.
Allan Nash.
was born
abt.1933 he died from diabetes on 19 May 1987 aged 54 and was buried at Barking Cemetery.
He married Barbara (other details not known). They had two daughters Jeanne and
Margaret and a son Alan. (This information came from my cousin Bernard who is a mine of
information, taken from his diary).
Parents: Fred Nash and Flossie (Florence) Harrison.
Fred
Nash (1)(2) Date
and place of birth unknown. Died 20 November 1966 and was buried at Barking
Cemetery. He was gassed during the First world War and after leaving the army he
worked at Ford Motors of Dagenham until his retirement. He married Flossie (Florence) Harrison about 1921/1922.
. Children were: Jack Nash, Allan Nash, Pamela Nash.
Jack Nash (1)(2) was
born. in June 1923 and died. January 1993.
Following the death of his first wife Jean, whom he married abt.1949, he married Sheila.
. Parents: Fred Nash and Flossie (Florence) Harrison.
Pamela Nash(1) (2) was born abt. 1939/1940.
She married Alfred Portway abt. June 1959
Children were: Richard Portway
. Parents: Fred Nash and Flossie (Florence) Harrison.
Paul Newman(2) was born Date of Birth not known in Place of Birth
not known.
Lucy
North date and place of birth unknown she married William
Ware
Children were: Jane Ware
Elizabeth
Odden was born abt. 1815 in Queenborough, Kent
Children were: Mary H. Odden
In the 1901 Census she was aged 86, a widow, residing with her daughter
Mary and son in law Henry Driver and family at
237 New Road, Chatham, Kent
Source 1901 Census RG13 Piece 727 Folio 84 Page 9 Schedule No.50
Mary A. Odden
was born abt. 1853 in Woolwich (then Kent) . She married
Henry Driver in March 1880 at Gravesend Source
1837online Marriage Index, Gravesend, March 1880 2a 545
Children were: Elizabeth Hodges Driver, Augustus Driver, Lucy P Driver
Parents were: Elizabeth Odden
In te 1901 Census she was aged 48, residing with her Husband
Henry Driver and Children and mother
Elizabeth Odden at 237 New Road, Chatham, Kent
Source 1901 Census RG13 Pice 727 Folio 84 Page 9 Schedule No.50
Charles
Oxbrow was born abt. 1878 in Bermondsey, London. (1901 Census) In
the 1881 Census however, he is shown as being born at Newington which as any
Londoner will know is more Elephant and Castle than Bermondsey. He married
Ada N. Backhouse December 1900 Source (Freebmd Bromley December
1900 2a 916)
Source of Birth also: 1837online.com Index Birth 1878 (Apr May June Qtr) 1878 St
Saviour 1d 36
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 3 and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
In the 1901 Census Charles is shown as aged 23, a Boot Maker and Repairer
living with his wife Ada at
33 Parish lane, Beckenham, Kent. Also in the household are his sisters in
law Laura and Gertrude.
Source: RG13, Piece 689, Folio 102, Page 8, Schedule No: 57. In the year 2002,
33 Parish Lane is closer to Penge East Station than Beckenham and is almost on
the junction of Parish Lane and Lennard Road, SE20 7
David
Oxbrow was born abt.1874 in Southwardk London
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 7 and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
Elijah (Elizah) Oxbrow was born abt.1831 in Bockings, Essex. He married
Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not yet known) date and
place not known
Children were: Ernest Alfred Oxbrow, Walter Oxbrow, David Oxbrow, William Oxbrow, Charles Oxbrow, Elijah Oxbrow (1881) John Oxbrow
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 50, a Brush Finisher and living with
wife Emma and children at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
In the 1901 Census Elizah is shown as aged 69 and working as a Brush Finisher
and residing with his wife Emma and children (William & Elizah) at 38
Elstead Street, Newington, London also in the household is John Hillier aged 39
a Brush Maker and boarding with the family.
Source - RG13 Piece 380 Folio 117 page 29 Schedule No: 194
Elijah
(Elizah) Oxbrow was born abt. 1881 in Bermondsey, London.
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 1 month and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
In the 1901 Census Elizah is shown as aged 20, a Kitchen Hand residing with
his parents and siblings (William & John) at 38 Elstead Street, Newington,
London also in the household is John Hillier aged 39 a Brush maker and boarding
with the family.
Source - RG13 Piece 380 Folio 117 page 29 Schedule No: 194
Emma
Oxbrow (maiden name not known) was born abt. 1847 in Aylesbury,
Buckingham. She married Elijah Oxbrow, date and
place not known.
Children were: Ernest Alfred Oxbrow, Walter Oxbrow, David Oxbrow, William Oxbrow, Charles Oxbrow, Elijah Oxbrow (1881) John Oxbrow
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 34 and living with her husband Elijah
and children at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
In the 1901 Census Emma is shown as aged 53 and living with her husband
Elizah and children (Elizah, John & William) at 38 Elstead Street, Newington,
London also in the household is John Hillier aged 39 a Brush maker and boarding
with the family.
Source - RG13 Piece 380 Folio 117 page 29 Schedule No: 194
Ernest
Alfred Oxbrow was born abt. 1866 in Newington, London
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 15 and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
John Oxbrow
was born abt. 1884 in Southwark, London. (Source 1901 Census - see below)
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1901 Census John is shown as aged 17, a Pickle Warehouseman residing
with his parents and siblings (William & Elizah) at 38 Elstead Street,
Newington, London also in the household is John Hillier aged 39 a Brush maker
and boarding with the family.
Source - RG13 Piece 380 Folio 117 page 29 Schedule No: 194
Walter
Oxbrow was born abt.1869 in Newington, London.
I understand he married Laura Minnie Backhouse
in 1928, place not known (this information given me by Steve Oxbrow). ( BUT
see entry
for William Oxbrow below)
I hav e searched the indexes of marriage for the years 1927-1928 but can find no
record of any marrage between Walter and Laura
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 12 and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
William
Oxbrow was born abt. 1877 in Newington, London. He married
Laura Minnie Backhouse in Bromley (District
)(Kent) September 1901. Source Free BMD Bromley Sept 1901 2a
1051. Actual place not known Further source
www.1837online.com Bromley Marriage Index Sept 1901 2a 1051
Parents were: Elijah Oxbrow and Emma Oxbrow (maiden name not known)
In the 1881 Census he is shown as aged 4 and living with his parents and
siblings at 9 Minto Street, Bermondsey. (Then Surrey)
FHL Film 1341127, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 0559, Folio 74, Page 21
In the 1901 Census William is shown as aged 24, a Printers Warehouseman
residing with his parents and siblings (John & Elizah) at 38 Elstead
Street, Newington, London also in the household is John Hillier aged 39 a Brush
maker and boarding with the family.
Source - RG13 Piece 380 Folio 117 page 29 Schedule No: 194
Elizabeth Oyler (Maiden
name not known). She married George Oyler possibly
in Cranbrook in 1848
maiden name was possibly Bryant
Children were: Marion Oyler, George Oyler,
George Oyler
(Senior) Date and place of Birth unknown. He married Mary Barret date and place unknown. During Feb 1820 - May
1821 he was living at Marden, Kent. In July 1823 he had moved to Cranbrook, Kent.
Children were Mary Oyler, Susanna Oyler, George Oyler
George Oyler Was
born 21 July 1823 in Cranbrook, Kent. He married Elizabeth
Oyler (maiden name not known) and in 1881 he was a farmer of 300 acres at Tong Farm,
Headcorn, Kent.
Possibly married in Cranbrook in 1848 to Elizabeth Bryant
Children were: Marion Oyler, George Oyler,
Parents were: George Oyler (Senior) and Mary Barret
George Oyler Was
born in Headcorn, Kent in 1856.
In 1881 he was residing at Tong Farm. Headcorn, Kent
Parents were: George Oyler and Elizabeth Oyler (Maiden name not known).
Marian Oyler
Was born in Headcorn, Kent in 1856.
In 1881 she was residing at Tong Farm. Headcorn, Kent
Parents were: George Oyler and Elizabeth Oyler (Maiden name not known).
Mary Oyler
Was born 1 February 1820 in Marden, Kent. She married William (Senr.) Rowe. The 1881 Census shows Mary and
her husband were residing at St Butchers Shop and House (On W Side of Turnpike),
Linton. Her occupation is shown as a Blacksmith's Wife.
Parents were: George Oyler (Senior) and Mary Barret
Children were: William Rowe
Susanna Oyler Was
born 9 May 1821 in Marden, Kent.
Parents were: George Oyler (Senior) and Mary Barret
Mabel Winifred Picard(1) (2) was
born date and place unknown.
Children were: unknown unknown.
Children were: Cyril Yeo, David Yeo, Joyce Yeo, Clifford Yeo, Peter Yeo, Myra Yeo.
Elizabeth Pilcher was born at Postling, Kent
abt. 1847 and married to Stephen Briggs abt 1866/1867.
Children were: Stephen R. Briggs, Caroline E. Briggs, Violet Annie Briggs, George J, Briggs, Lizzie M. Briggs, Jeanie H.A. Briggs
In 1881 she is shown as living at the Flying Horse Inn, Boughton Aluph with her husband Stephen Briggs (a House Porter, Domestic) and the following children. Stephen R. Briggs, Caroline E. Briggs, Violet Annie Briggs, George J, Briggs, Lizzie M. Briggs, Jeanie H.A. Briggs
In the 1901 Census, Elizabeth aged 54, is living at 8 Park Road, Ashford,
Kent with her husband Stephen, a Sheet
Maker at the S.E. Railway Works, a daughter Jennie (Jeanie)
and two boarders; Mary Girdler born North Kent and aged 5 and Emily Reeves born
North Kent and aged 2.
Source:RG13, Piece 782, Folio 7, page 5, Schedule No: 27
Note: From the age shown of the two boarders in the 1901 Census I wonder if these children are being fostered or are actual relatives.
Elizabeth Pinehard(1) (2) was born. She died. She
was christened. Children were: William Yeo, James Yeo , Thomas Yeo, John Yeo.
Christopher Pooley(1) (2) was born date and place
unknown.
Children were: Lorraine Kirsty Pooley, Kevin Christopher Pooley, Lisa Pooley.
Kevin Christopher
Pooley(1) (2) was
born on 2 Feb 1980 in Whalley Drive, Bletchley. Parents: Christopher
Pooley and Shirley Trew.
Lisa Pooley(1) (2) was born on 4 Dec 1973 in
Royal Bucks Hospital, Aylesbury. She was an Information Desk Supervisor, Abbey National
Building Society. in Jun 1999 in Milton Keynes. Parents: Christopher
Pooley and Shirley Trew.
She was married to Timothy Edward Backhouse on 4 Jul 1998 in Fenny Stratford Registry Office, Bletchley, Milton Keynes.
Children: Molly Jane Backhouse
Lorraine Kirsty Pooley(1) (2) was born on 22 Apr 1976
in Whalley Drive, Bletchley. Parents: Christopher Pooley and Shirley Trew.
Alfred Portway Date
and place of Birth unknown. Married Pamela Nash.abt. June
1959
Children were: Richard Portway
Richard Portway
Date and place of Birth unknown.
Parents were: Alfred Portway and Pamela Nash
He was married to Christine Barbara Harrison abt. September 1970
Children were: Steven Prior
Margaret Prior
was born about 1812 in Kennington, Kent. She married Stephen Briggs on 30 July 1831.
In 1881 she was living in Rats Castle, Boughton Aluph with her son Charles, an
agricultural labourer, but was living alone on The Lees, Boughton Aluph in 1891.
Margaret and Stephen had twelve children:
Ann Briggs, William Briggs, Mary Briggs, George Briggs, Stephen Briggs, Caroline Briggs, Richard Briggs, Margaret Briggs, Elizabeth Briggs, Catherine Briggs, Sarah Briggs, Charles Briggs.
Steven Prior was
born 8 January 1972
Parents: Frank Prior and Christine Barbara Harrison
Alice H. Reid
was born abt 1873 in London, Middlesex.
Parents were: Edward Reid, Martha Roberts
In the 1881 Census she was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex aged 8
Charles H. Reid was
born abt. 1880 in London, Middlesex.. He was killed in action in South Africa
16 January 1901 (The Boer War). The original information relating
to his death was taken from the Memorial on
Woolwich Common dedicated to members of 61 Battery, Royal Field Artillery who died
in South Africa between these dates.
Parents were: Edward Reid, Martha Roberts
In the 1881 Census he was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex
I am indebted to David Humphry for the following information he
sent me in reply to a query I raised on the Roots Web BOER WAR Request
List. I attach his reply in full.
Also to David Stevens whose reply is also appended below.
18751 Acting Bombardier CH Reid, 61st Battery Royal Field Artillery, was
killed in action at Machadodorp on 16 January 1901. He is buried at Machadodorp
Cemetery and his grave is marked by a metal cross.
The 61st was a Howitzer Battery which arrived in Natal in late December 1899 and
took part in various actions of the campaign to relieve Ladysmith. They also
took part in the later actions at Alleman's Nek (June 1900) and Bergendal
(August 1900), on the latter occasion being complimented by General Sir Redvers
Buller for the accuracy of their fire. They were part of
Buller's force in various actions around Lydenburg later in 1900.
After your grand uncle's death the battery remained in the Eastern Transvaal but
the guns were split between two different columns and the lines of
communication. In December 1901 it was one of 6 batteries converted to Mounted
Rifles because mounted troops had become more necessary than artillery batteries
after the war had entered it's guerrilla phase.
His name will also be on the impressive artillery memorial in the Mall in London. It is situated near the Trafalgar Square/Admiralty Arch end and the names are arranged by batteries.
From David Stevens:
According to the Boer War Casualty Rolls Acting Bombardier C. Reid of 61 Battery
RFA was accidentally killed at a place called Machadodorp on January 16, 1901. A
Sergeant was also killed and four other men slightly wounded on the same day
(all from 61 Battery) in the same accident.
Edward Reid was
born abt. 1852 in Hornsey, London, Middlesex
He was married to Martha Roberts September 1874 in
Pancras, Middlesex.
Source: Free BMD, Pancras (now St Pancras) Vol 1b, page 184
Children were Alice H. Reid, Charles H. Reid,
Edward C. Reid, Florence Elizabeth Reid ,
Nellie Reid Mary Reid
In the 1881 Census he was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex,
his occupation was shown as a Carpenter aged 30.
In the 1901 Census he is shown as living at 71 Milford Road, Twickenham.
Middlesex, his occupation as Carpenter Builders. Also shown is a new wife, Jane
Reid born in Pimlico, aged 34.
Source: RG13, Piece 1188, Folio 32, Page 16, Schedule No: 103
Edward Charles Reid was
born abt. 1874 in Hornsey, London, Middlesex.
He married Ruth Reid abt. September 1896 in Southwark, London,
(Surrey until 1889).
Source: Free BMD., Marriages September, St Olaves Southwark, (St Olaves
was Surrey until 1889, now London) Volume 1d, page 517.
In the Free BMD Entry Ruth's maiden name is shown as Ruth Reid.as it is in the
marriage Index 1837online.
Parents were: Edward Reid, Martha Roberts
In the 1881 Census he was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex aged 7
In the 1901 Census he is shown as living at 20 Avondale Road, Camberwell,
London with his wife Ruth and sister Mary. His occupation is that of Omnibus
Ticket Inspector
Source: RG13, Piece 498, Folio 65, Page 9, Schedule No:58
Florence Elizabeth
Reid(2) was born 12 December 1874 at 2
St Marys Road, Hornsey, Middlesex.in the Registration District of Edmonton. I am told from
family members that her father was: Edward Reid, whose occupation was a carpenter
and her mother Martha Anne Roberts.(**see entry for Edward above) She was
living on 24 Dec 1930 in 194 Charlton Lane, Charlton.. She was living about 1942 in
Shornells Way, Abbey Wood, SE2. She was living about 1943/44 in 252 Bellegrove Road,
Welling, Kent. She died on 19 Aug 1964 in 17 Verdant Lane, Catford, Lewisham. (35) She was buried 24 August 1964 (2-30pm) in New
Eltham Cemetary, Falconwood, Kent.(36) Note from
Brian, . I think my Grandmother lived at sometime in Leigham Ave (??) London, SW16, (just
off the South Circular Road). and 114 Wellfield Road, Streatham, SW16.
Source of Birth: Family Members and Birth Index 1837online Edmonton Birth Index
3a 182. The Birth was actually registered in January 1875
Parents were: Edward Reid, Martha Roberts
In the 1881 Census she was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex aged 6
She was married to William Henry Harrison at St Leonards in the Parish of Streatham on 19 October 1900.
Children were: Winifred (Bin) Alice Harrison, Edith (Ede) Harrison , Charles Harrison,
Florence (Flossie) Harrison, Masie Lilian
Harrison, Constance Elizabeth Harrison, William
(Jnr) Harrison,
John (Jack) Harrison, George Harrison, Nellie May Harrison.
I understand that there was another child, Dorothy, who died of Diphtheria aged two.
This information is from my cousin Jennifer who says "My Mum only knew of her from
what she heard from Gran so she must have been one of the first to have been born.
Apparently only a toddler, she used to tell things to "her Jesus" and Gran said
that she was too good to live long".
I have found two Death entries in Free BMD under Wandsworth, September 1899, Volume 1d page 545. They read Dorothy Florence Harrison age two and Dorothy Florence Reid age two. Co-incidental??
On examining birth dates of some of the elders of the Harrison Family it is apparent that some were born "out of wedlock".
In the 1901 Census she is living at 114 Wellfield Road, Streatham with her
husband William Henry Harrison and children; Edith Reid (Aunt Ede) aged 8.
Florence May Harrison aged 1 (Aunt Floss) and son William Henry Harrison aged 4
months (Uncle Bill).
Source: RG13, Piece 477, Folio 12, Page 15, Schedule No: 103
There is no record that I can find as yet as to who the father of Edith was
Mary
Reid was born abt. 1894 in Clerkenwell, London
Parents were: Edward Reid and Martha Roberts
In the 1901 Census she is shown as living at 20 Avondale Road, Camberwell,
London with her brother and his wife Ruth
Source: RG13, Piece 498, Folio 65, Page 9, Schedule No:58
Nellie Reid was
born abt. 1877 in London, Middlesex
Parents were: Edward Reid, Martha Roberts
In the 1881 Census she was residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex aged 4
Ruth
Reid was born abt. 1874 in Bermondsey, London. She married
Edward C. Reid abt. September 1896 in Southwark, London,
(Surrey until 1889).
Source: Free BMD., Marriages September, St Olaves Southwark, (St Olaves
was Surrey until 1889, now London) Volume 1d, page 517.
In the BMD entry her maiden name is shown as Ruth Reid as it is in the Marriage
Index 1837online
In the 1901 Census she is shown as living at 20 Avondale Road, Camberwell,
London with her husband and his sister Mary
Source: RG13, Piece 498, Folio 65, Page 9, Schedule No:58
Charles
T. Roberts was born abt. 1854 in London, Middlesex
Parents were: Peter Roberts and Elizabeth Roberts
In then1881 Census Charles is shown aged 27, a Brewers Drayman living with
his parents and brother
FHL Film 1341077, PRO Ref: RG11, Piece 0358, Folio 70, Page 8
Elizabeth Roberts (mnnk) was born abt. 1825
in Winchester, Hampshire.
She married Peter Roberts date and place not known.
Children were: Martha Anne Roberts, Charles T. Roberts, Henry C. Roberts
In the 1881 Census, Elizabeth is shown as a Wife, aged 56 living at 4
Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex with her husband and sons next
door to her daughter Martha at 5 Plummers Place.
FHL Film 1341077, PRO Ref: RG11, Piece 0358, Folio 70, Page 8
Henry
C. Roberts was born abt. 1860 in London, Middlesex.
Parents were: Peter Roberts and Elizabeth Roberts
In then1881 Census Charles is shown aged 21, a Cabman living with
his parents and brother
FHL Film 1341077, PRO Ref: RG11, Piece 0358, Folio 70, Page 8
Maria Roberts(1) (2) was born in 1802 in Sr
Dogwalls, Wales.
Children were: Ann (2) Yeo, Ann (1) Yeo, David Yeo, Thomas (2) Yeo, Thomas (1) Yeo, John (The First) Yeo.
Martha Anne Roberts
was born abt. 1852 in London, Middlesex. She married Edward
Reid (occupation a carpenter) .September 1874 in Pancras, Middlesex.
Source: Free BMD, Pancras (now St Pancras) Vol 1b, page 184.
Died abt. June 1897, Islington, London, Middlesex.
Source: Free BMD: Islington Deaths, June 1897, Volume 1b, Page 210
Parents were: Peter Roberts and Elizabeth Roberts (Maiden name not known)
Children were: Alice H. Reid,
Charles H. Reid, Edward C. Reid, Florence Elizabeth Reid , Nellie Reid
Mary Reid
In the 1881 Census she is shown as aged 29 and residing at 5 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex
with her husband and children next door to her parents and brothers at 4 Plummers Place.
Edward Reid Senr. is shown on the 1901 Census as having a new wife, Jane born in Pimlico abt. 1867
Peter
Roberts was born abt. 1821 in Newport Pagnell, Buckinghamshire. He
married Elizabeth Roberts (mnnk)
Children were: Martha Anne Roberts, Charles T. Roberts, Henry C. Roberts
In the 1881 Census, Peter is shown aged 60, Head of House, a pensioner and
retired Prison Warder living with his wife Elizabeth and sons Charles T. and
Henry C..at 4 Plummers Place, Clerkenwell, London, Middlesex. The family is living next door to Peter's daughter Martha and her
family.
FHL Film 1341077, PRO Ref: RG11, Piece 0358, Folio 70, Page 8
Ann
Rossiter was born abt.1764 in probably Evercreeech, Somerset. She
was christened in Evercreech on 15 May 1764
Parents were: Eleanor Rossiter
Children were: Benjamin John Backhouse or Rossiter
Eleanor
Rossiter was born probably in Evercreech, Somerset abt. 1744.
Parents were: Thomas Clark and Eleanor Rossiter
Children were: Ann Rossiter
Eleanor
Rossiter was probably born abt. 1720 in Evercreech, Somerset. She
is shown on Family Search, Ancestral File as being married to Thomas
Clark but no date is given.
Children are shown as: Eleanor Rossiter, Isaac Clark, Sarah Clark
Alice May Rowe(2)
was born on 23 Feb 1882 in Bexleyheath, Kent (Information from Family Bible) Date and place of death unknown.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In the 1901 census she was shown as residing at "Mardale!, Brampton Road,
Bexleyheath and
her Occupation was a Parlour Maid.
Source: RG13, Piece696, Folio 52, Page 16, Schedule no:82
Annie Maud Rowe(2) was born on 19 Jun 1879 in Bexleyheath,
Kent. (Information from Family Bible). Date and place of death unknown.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis
Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census she was residing with her parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. ( aged 1).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
Annie
Rowe was born abt.1890 in Manchester
Parents were:- Thomas Henry Rowe and Isabella Mackie
In the 1901 Census she is shown as living with her parents and sibling at 6
Alam Street, Ardwick, Manchester.
Source:- RG13, Piece 3675, Folio 91, Page 40, Schedule no.281
Arthur
J Rowe(2) was born on 20 Apr 1870 in Dulwich, (then Kent).
The 1901 Census states Lee, Kent..
Date and place of death not known.
He married Isabella Rowe ( maiden name not known) date and place not known.
Children were Maggie I Rowe
. Parents: William Rowe and Francis
Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census he was residing with his parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. (a Scholar aged 9).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
In the 1901 Census he is shown as a Salvation Army Officer visiting 82, Heath
Street, Hampstead, London .with his wife Isabella, also a Salvation Army Officer
and daughter Maggie aged 2.
Source : RG13, Piece 120, Folio18, Page 28, Schedule no. 193.
Arthur
Herbert Rowe(1) (2)
was born on 18 Mar 1913 in Bexleyheath. He was christened on 23 May 1913 in Christ
Church, The Broadway, Bexleyheath.(38) He served in
the military between 26 Jul 1940 and 1946 in UK, Burma & Malaya. (39) Note from Brian,
Whilst serving in Burma with the Royal Sussex Regiment (The Shining 9th) Arthur was
mentioned in Dispatches. (See below).
He never spoke much about the war. We know he was adversely affected by some of his
experiences, he had an absolute hatred of all Japanese. He was originally in the RAC but
transferred to the Royal Sussex. His army number: 6407986. Total length of Military
Service - 5 years, 9 months, 14 days. He was a Foreman Transport Fitter on 10 May 1946 in
London Transport Bus Garage, Bexleyheath, Kent. He was Mentioned in Despatches on 19 Sep
1946 in London Gazette, London. (40) He died on 27
Jun 1985 in 192 Beadlemead, Netherfield, Milton Keynes.(41)
He was cremated in Jul 1985 in Crownhill Crematorium, Milton Keynes. Note from Brian.
Following the cremation Arthur's ashes were scattered in the Garden of Remembrance
at Honor Oak Crematorium, Catford the following week. This was the site where his wife's
ashes were scattered.
Parents: Herbert Rowe and Edith May Rowe
((nee Matthews).
He was married to Annie Elizabeth Briggs on 4 Nov 1939 in
Register Office, Dartford, Kent. (42)
Children
were: Jean Ann Rowe.
Edward Rowe(1) (2) died in Heywood,
Lancashire March 1942 aged 16. He was born December 1925 Place of Birth not known. Note
from Brian , 23 June 1999. The death of Edward is surrounded in mystery. Until we
can find a copy of the death certificate I suppose the cause will never be sure. From
information given by Arthur, Edward was supposedly found dead from hanging. Jean thinks it
may have been gassing. Suicide or accident? Until we investigate further we shall never
know.
Nanny (Louise Rowe nee Bennett), was always reluctant to talk about it and so we never
pressed her for an answer. Arthur at the time was serving in the army. Parents: Herbert Rowe and Louisa Bennett.
Elizabeth
Rowe (maiden name not yet known) was born abt. 1866 in Marhampton
Gloucester
She was married to William Rowe (b.abt. 1869) date and place not yet known.
Children were: William Rowe, Ronald Rowe, Stanley Rowe.
Fanny (AKA Annie
Elizabeth Rowe ??) (2) was born
on 14 Jun 1874 in Bexleyheath, Kent.(43) She died
between 25 Mar 1934 and 4 Apr 1934 in Place of death not known. She was buried on 4 Apr
1934 in Sidcup Cemetery, Sidcup, Kent.. (44)
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census she was residing with her parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. (a Scholar aged 7).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
Note 3 September 1999. This information relating to the names Annie Elizabeth and the details of burial given by the Cemetery Department of London Borough of Bexley is now suspect. We think that Fanny & Annie Elizabeth are two separate people. We have traced Fanny on the Bexley 1921 Index but there is no mention of Annie Elizabeth.
George Rowe(2) was born on 9 Sep 1873
in Place of Birth Kent.
He died about 22 May 1901 in Bexleyheath, Kent.. He was buried on 29 May 1901 in
Bexleyheath Cemetery, Bexleyheath, Kent. (45) Note
from Jean. When searching the Cemetery on 1 July 1999 we found the public grave, a grassed
area with no markings other than the grave number 265. Dying at the age of 29, 6 years
after his father William and 27 years before his mother Francis and not being buried with
either his parents or brother in Grave 2610 makes me wonder if there was a family rift.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In 1881 George (aged 7) is shown as living with his Grandparents William (Senr.) Rowe and Mary Oyler
In the 1901 Census he is shown as a Police Constable residing at 10 Clarks
Buildings, St. Giles in the Fields, Holborn, London. He was single. It is a
possibility that the address was a police barrack accommodation, as the Census
showed there were 43 other people in the same address.
Source: RG13, Piece 239, Folio 100, Page 33, Schedule no.273.
Harry Rowe(2) was born on 24 Oct 1883 in Place of birth not
known. Date and place of death unknown.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds
.
Herbert Rowe(1) (2) was born on 12 Aug 1885
in Place of birth Bexleyheath, Kent.. (43) (Some of the
dates in the Family Bible have been altered. Where this has happened I have taken the last
date shown. Note from:Brian.) He was living on 4 Nov 1939 in 62 Church Road, Bexleyheath,
Kent.(37) He died in 1958 in Prestwich, Manchester,
Lancs..(46) He was a Sen.Civil Servant M.O.D.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
Children were: Arthur Herbert Rowe. From his first marriage to Edith May Matthews.
He was married to Louisa Bennett. Date and place of marriage
not known following the death of his first wife whilst he was serving with the British
Army.
Children were: Edward Rowe, Herbert ( Bert )
Edmond Rowe.
He was married to Edith May Matthews on 9 November 1912 at St Matthias Church, Canning Town in the Parish of West Ham. Witnesses at this marriage were: Septimus Rowe, Harry Rowe, Rose Austin. His occupation at this time is given as Gardener and his address as: 2 Oak Villas,Church Road, Bexleyheath. On the death of his first wife Edith May Rowe (nee Matthews) the address on the Death Certificate is given as 21 Colegate Terrace, Chatham. His occupation is shown as Colour Sgt. 3rd Royal West Kent Regt.
In the 1901 Census he is shown as aged 15, residing with Francis Rowe, his mother at
Hosely Cottage, Princes Street, Bexley. His occupation was Office Boy Builders.
Source:RG13, Piece 696, Folio 72, Page 18, Schedule No: 97.
Herbert ( Bert ) Edmond
Rowe(1) (2) died
about 1970 in Manchester. He was born March 1924 Place of Birth not known. .
Parents: Herbert Rowe and Louisa Bennett.
Isabella
Rowe was born abt. 1873 in Preston, Lancashire.
She Married Arthur J. Rowe date and place unknown.
Children were: Maggie I. Rowe.
In the 1901 Census she is shown as a Salvation Army Officer visiting 82,
Heath Street, Hampstead, London .with her husband Arthur J. Rowe, also a
Salvation Army Officer and daughter Maggie aged 2.
Source : RG13, Piece 120, Folio18, Page 28, Schedule no. 193.
Jean
Ann Rowe(1) (2) was
born on 19 Mar 1943 in Maternity Home, Lavernock
Road, Barnehurst, Kent.. (47) Jean's parents at the
time of her birth were then living at: 19 Chapel Road, Bexleyheath, Kent. She was baptized
on 13 Jun 1943 in Christ Church, The Broadway, Bexleyheath.(48)
She was a Purchasing Clerk before 1962 in Atlas Preservative Co., Fraser Road, Erith,
Kent.. Note from Jean. "Dennis Thatcher was the proprietor of this paint and
preservative manufacturer in Erith, Kent. He married Margaret Thatcher
(nee Roberts) in 1951, she became
the first woman Prime Minister of Great Britain. Each morning he used to storm into the
office, say to me "cigarettes" and I would have to go and buy him a packet. It
was always difficult to get the money from him. Coincidentally Brian delivered
leaflets for her in 1948 and 1950 (whilst he was on leave from the army) when
she was a prospective Parliamentary Candidate for Dartford". Jean was a Housewife & Mother
extraordinary. She was living in Mar 1962 in 28 Lavernock Road, Bexleyheath, Kent.. She
was a Housekeeper & Cook before 1969 in the Malta High Commission Residence, London.
Note from Brian. . "Jean worked at the Residence as Housekeeper etc. whilst I was
Chauffeur, Butler, Valet, Bodyguard & general dogsbody. All in all, a thoroughly
enjoyable & interesting experience for both of us. Between us I think we were 'goosed'
by Kings & Queens, Lords & Ladies more than we cuddled each other". Married Brian Albert Backhouse on 24 March 1972 after living together since
1962
Parents: Arthur Herbert Rowe and Annie
Elizabeth Briggs.
Children were: Simon Rowe. (See Simon's entry).
She was married to Brian Albert Backhouse on 24 Mar 1972 in
Bromley. (49) A note from husband Brian.
"The surprising thing about Jean's Wedding Day (Friday 2 pm.) was - She didn't know
she was getting married until 10 am. that morning).
I had the previous week borrowed £5. from Tony Mellish (money was always 'tight' and I was
invariably skint) to purchase a Special Licence. This was as a result of Jean seeing a
David Frost program on the television on "Love & Marriage". Following the
program she asked me what it was like to be married. I thought that she felt she was
missing something so I decided to surprise her.
I came off duty that morning from the Town Hall. (We were preparing for the yearly visit
of the Lord Mayor of London). (I was Mayoral Chauffeur & Ceremonial Attendant at this
time. The Mayor of Bromley at this time was Alderman Fred Packer).I gave Jean £5
and said "Go and get your hair done as we are going to a wedding this afternoon"
Then I told her whose. I personally think that this turned the occasion into the Wedding
of the Year) Jean's face was a picture.
I have loved and cherished her from that day to this".
Children were: June Claire Backhouse, Frances
Elizabeth Backhouse, Brian Arthur Albert Backhouse , Timothy Edward Backhouse, Kevin Matthew
Backhouse.
Additional note 9 February 2004 by Brian.
"Over the years before we were married Jean was called various names by members of my maternal family because we weren't married.. I have since found out that my Maternal Grandmother had several children "out of wedlock" and not necessarily by the same father. Two faced I believe you call that"
Kate Jane Rowe(2) was born on 21 Dec 1877 in Bexleyheath, Kent. Date
and place of death unknown.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census she was residing with her parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. ( a scholar aged 3).FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11
Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
Maggie
I. Rowe was born abt 1899 in Sheffield , Yorkshire.
Parents were: Arthur J. Rowe and Isabella Rowe.
In the 1901 Census she is shown as visiting 82, Heath Street,
Hampstead, London .with her parents Arthur J. Rowe and Isabella Rowe.
Source : RG13, Piece 120, Folio18, Page 28, Schedule no. 193.
Minnie Rowe(2) was born on 10 Mar 1876 in Bexleyheath, Kent. Date
and place of death unknown
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds
.
In the 1881 Census she was residing with her parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. (a Scholar aged 5).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
Ronald
Rowe was born abt. 1895 in Bexley, Kent
Parents were William Rowe (b.1869) and Elizabeth Row
In the 1901 Census the Ronald is residing with his parents and siblings at
Albert Road, Bexley, Kent. He is shown as aged 6..
Septimus
Charles Rowe(2) was born on 18 Sep 1880 in Bexleyheath, Kent. Date
and place of death unknown.
. Parents: William Rowe and Francis
Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census he was residing with his parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. ( aged 6 months).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
In the 1901 Census he was residing as a boarder at165 Hampstead Road, St.
Pancras, London. His occupation is shown as being a Corn Dealers Assistant.
Source :RG13, Piece 131, Folio 87, Page 8, Schedule no. 64.
Simon Rowe(2) was born on 21 Nov 1961 in Farnborough Hospital,
Bromley, Kent. He was adopted in 1962 in Bexleyheath, Kent..(50)
Note By Brian.
In the early 1960s illegitimate children were frowned upon. In this modern day and age
Jean would have been a single parent strongly supported by all.
Then, unfortunately, it was near enough compulsory to have your illigitimate child
adopted.
The great pity is that I walked with Jean to the Magistrates home when Jean had to sign
the adoption papers. We didn't know then of course that we would become as one. With the
terrible experiences that Jean had prior to our meeting and subsequently joining together
she wasn't to know any different. I, at that time didn't know of Simon. Had I known he
would now bear the name of Backhouse. If ever Simon reads this I sincerely hope that he
bears his mother no ill will. The fact of his adoption was taken out of her hands. After
all these years she still thinks of and mentions him constantly.
The pregnancy came about when a photographer who had a business next door to the shop
seduced Jean, who at that time worked at a Grocers (Robert Jackson, Widmore Street) in
London.
When Jean told him she was pregnant, his answer was "Tough! So is my wife". I
did in fact catch up with him around 1967 when I saw a picture of a naked woman in his
photographic shop (Jean's face but not her body) whilst I was chauffeur to the High
Commissioner for Malta. The H.C. remarked to me how much like Jean the photo looked. (He
didn't know of the connection of course. Neither did I at this particular point although I
knew a little of the story). The eventual encounter between him & me was brief but
greatly satisfactory to me.
NB. 7 July 1999 - Jean has now written a letter to Simon, I do so hope he does get to read
it.
Parents: Jean Ann Rowe.
Note 27 September 1999 from Brian:In the letter to Simon below Jean
states that we have been married for 37 years. As I have stated in the entry
relating to Jean & I we have in fact only been married legally for 27 years, having
lived together ("in sin" it used to be called) for 10 years. As my Jean says
"What difference does a piece of paper make? Having made a commitment it's the
same as being married".
Sorry if this has caused some confusion.
A Letter to Simon.
From Jean Backhouse (nee Rowe) 7 July 1999.
"I have started to write this letter so many times over the years and never completed it, but this time I will. There has to be some place it can be kept in case you do ever try to find me. I feel there has to be a record of your birth and why I had to give you away.
Firstly Im sure at nearly 38 years old you must know how different things were all those years ago. There was none of the help that single mothers get now. Unmarried mothers were a disgrace and had to be hidden away.
Abortion was not available either; I would not have considered it anyway even then. Also although I was 18 I was not as the eighteen year olds are today. I was very naïve and immature compared with todays young women. They are women I was still a girl. I am not making excuses for myself it happened and you were the result. Your father turned out to be married with a wife who was also pregnant and when told I was pregnant said, "Try jumping off the table that might get rid of it". Needless to say that was that.
I was four months pregnant when my father found out, my mother had died when I was 12, so there was only him and I. I nearly broke him that day I think, when we sat and cried together, him because he didnt know what to do and me because of what I had done to him.
I actually went to a hostel and carried on going to work until I had a burst appendix and we both could have died. I then transferred to a Mother and Baby Home (A bit like prison really) with three months to go instead of six weeks but by this time I was beginning to grow up.
I dont want you to think that your Grandfather was an ogre or a nasty man, he wasnt, he did what he thought was best for me, as he had no idea what to do. When I was born he was in Burma and didnt see me until I was three years old so he had no experience of pregnancy. He visited me every Saturday (we were allowed out that day) and brought me extra goodies and took me for tea. It must have been pretty awful for him too. He never talked about it afterwards, mainly because he didnt know what to say. He did see you on the Saturdays after you were born which surprised me, he said you were like Edward, his younger brother.
We were supposed to stay at the home for six weeks after the birth but I went home after a month, as Dad wanted me home for Christmas. A foster home was found for you, with your three of everything neatly packed in a cardboard box. I can picture it now as clear as anything, a "peasouper" fog black as night and I had to hand you over and walk away. I loved you so much it was I think even after all these years the hardest thing I ever had to do.
That really is what this letter is about, I wanted you to know how much I loved you, that I didnt give you away because I didnt want you, there were no other choices. I sneaked off and saw you once more before the six weeks were up I wasnt supposed to but of course I knew where you were and just turned up. I got told afterwards I was not to go again and not long afterwards your adoptive parents came for you.
Even after 38 years and with other children I have never stopped loving the baby I gave away, because whatever you will always be my first born. Recently two friends who knew what I was going to do said two different things. One said that a child who is adopted is twice loved and the other said that although you will always be my son I can never be your mother. Both are right.
I would like to tell you a bit about our family. I have been married for thirty seven years to Brian, hes 70 this year (I actually met him before signing the final papers, in fact he took me there but didnt know what for. When he found out he said I could have got you back but I could not have done that to your parents by then they must have loved you as much as I did). They say that for everyone there is a Mr or Mrs Right, well I found mine and I love him more now than all those years ago. We have had bad times but love conquers all. He already had three daughters from a previous marriage and we proceeded to have five more children who are of course your half brothers and sisters.
June is 36 and is married to Nigel and has four sons. Daniel, Jamie, Harry & Joseph aged 13, 9, 4, 9 months. She is a Special Care Baby Nurse and Nigel is a para-medic.
Frances is 35 and married to Allan who works on the Travelling Post Office. They have two children Jack & Hannah aged 10 & 8 (both born on the same day two years apart).
Brian is 34 and divorced with one daughter, Hollie who is 12. He lives here with us and is a Floor Manager at the Shopping Centre.
Timothy is 32 and is married to Lisa, no children yet as although they have lived together 5 years they only got married last July. He is a Security Manager.
Kevin who is my baby (he hates that) is 30 and got married two weeks ago to Donna. He had been married before when he was 21 but it only lasted a short time. He is a supervisor in a clothing company. They are all a great lot, obviously we have had problems over the years but we muddled through.
All I ever wanted was a husband and a family and that is what I got. I think I have been a good mother I have certainly tried. I hope one day you do read this and maybe make contact, but for the right reasons. All of my other children know about you I have never made you a secret. I haven’t put any more about your Grandfather, he loved all his grandchildren and I know if things had been different he would have felt the same about you. He came to live with us when he was 6o and had pneumonia, he decided he would retire early and we moved here with our three sons nearly 16 years ago he came as well but sadly he died the following year aged 72 of a massive heart attack. I miss him still, so do we all for that matter.
Stanley
Rowe was born 1bt 1897 in Bexley, Kent.
Parents were: William Rowe and Elizabeth Rowe
In the 1901 Census the Stanley is residing with his parents and siblings at Albert Road, Bexley, Kent. He is shown as aged 4.
Thomas Henry Rowe(2) was born on 25 Sep 1868 in Sydenham, (Then Kent).
(The 1901 Census states Penge)
He died about 1 Feb 1914 in Bexleyheath, Kent.. He was buried on 10 Feb 1914 in
Bexleyheath Cemetary, Bexleyheath, Kent. (51) Note
from Jean . On searching the cemetery on 1 July 1999 the location of the grave of Thomas
Henry and his parents was not found. Thomas was 46 when he died, his father 59 years, his
brother 26 years. The mother Francis was 87 years.
He married Isabella Mackie place and date unknown
Children were: Annie Rowe, William Rowe,
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census he was residing with his parents and siblings at: Victoria
Street, Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. (a Scholar aged 12).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
In the 1901 Census he is shown as a Waterproof Garment Maker residing at 6
Alma Street, Ardwick, Manchester with his wife Isabella (aged 32) a dress maker
working from home and their two children Annie (aged 11) & William (aged 10).
Also with them is Isabella's mother Annie Mackie, a dress maker working
from home, aged 70. who is shown as a British Subject from Canada.
Source:- RG13, Piece 3675, Folio 91, Page 40, Schedule no.281
William
Rowe was born abt. 1891 in Manchester
Parents were:- Thomas Henry Rowe and Isabella Mackie.
In the 1901 Census he is shown as living with his parents and sibling at 6
Alma Street, Ardwick, Manchester.
Source:- RG13, Piece 3675, Folio 91, Page 40, Schedule no.281
William (Senr.)
Rowe Was born abt. 1810 in Kilkhampton, Cornwall. He married Mary Oyler (date and place not known). The 1881 Census shows
William & his Wife Mary were residing at St Butchers Shop and House (On W Side of
Turnpike), Linton with their Grandson George Rowe aged 7, a scholar William's
occupation is shown as a Blacksmith (Master).
Children were: William Rowe
William Rowe(2) was born on 17 Mar 1838/39 in Thorncombe, Dorset..
He died about 7 Mar 1895 in Bexleyheath, Kent.. He was buried on 15 Mar 1895 in
Bexleyheath Cemetery, Bexleyheath, Kent. (52) Note
from Jean . We searched the Cemetery on 1 July 1999 but did not find the grave.
He was married to Francis (aka.Fanny) Edmonds at
Camberwell, London in December 1867
Source: Free BMD District Camberwell, Vol. 1d, page 861
In the 1881 Census he and Francis were residing at: Victoria Street, Knowsley Cottage,
Bexley, Kent .his occupation is shown as a gardener.
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
Parents were: William (Senr.) Rowe and Mary Oyler
. Children were: Thomas Henry Rowe, William
Rowe, Arthur Rowe, George Rowe,
Fanny AKA Annie Elizabeth Rowe, Minnie Rowe,
Kate Jane Rowe, Annie Maud Rowe,
Septimus Charles Rowe, Alice May Rowe, Harry Rowe, Herbert Rowe.
William Rowe(2) was born on 5 Nov 1869 in Camberwell, (Then
Surrey). Date and place of death unknown.
He married Elizabeth Rowe (maiden name not yet known) place and date not yet
known.
Children were: William Rowe,
Ronald Rowe, Stanley Rowe.
Parents: William Rowe and Francis Edmonds.
In the 1881 Census he was residing with his parents and siblings at: Victoria Street,
Knowsley Cottage, Bexley, Kent. (a Scholar aged 11).
FHL Film 1341204 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0861 Folio 43 Page 35.
In the 1901 Census William is shown as aged 31, a Grocer's Porter living at
Albert Road, Bexley, Kent with his wife Elizabeth and three sons William, Ronald
and Stanley. His place of birth is shown here as London, Forest
Hill.
Source: RG13 Piece 699 Folio77 page 32 Schedule Number 194
William Rowe
was born abt. 1894 in Bexley, Kent
Parents were: William Rowe and Elizabeth Rowe (MNNYK)
In the 1901 Census the younger William is residing with his parents and siblings at Albert Road, Bexley, Kent. He is shown as aged 7.
George
Ruck unknown date and place of birth.
He was married to Mary Briggs 13 October1853
Caroline Sharp was
born abt.1833 in Wye, Kent. She married William Briggs
date and place unknown.
Children were: Albert Henry Briggs
Parents were: Hannah Sharp
In the 1881 Census she was residing at The Lees, Boughton Aluph, Kent, aged 48.
Occupation: Wife
Source FHL Film 1341227 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0951 Folio 53 Page 14
Hannah Sharp
was born abt. 1808 in Wye Kent.
In the 1881 Census she was residing at The Lees, Boughton Aluph, Kent. Shown as
Widowed. Relationship: Mother in Law, aged 73.
Children were: Caroline Sharp
In the 1881 Census she was residing at The Lees, Boughton Aluph, Kent, aged 48.
Source FHL Film 1341227 PRO Ref RG11 Piece 0951 Folio 53 Page 14
Richard Simmonds(2)
Children were: Sarah Simmonds.
Sarah Simmonds(1) (2) was born on 28 Feb 1965
in Bushey, Hertfordshire.
. Parents: Richard Simmonds and Coral
Fitzsimons
She was married to Brian Arthur Albert Backhouse on 8 Nov 1986 in Registry Office, Fenny Stratford. She was divorced from Brian about 1992 in Milton Keynes. Children were: Hollie Backhouse.
Ann
Slade was born abt 1841 in Brightwaltham, Berkshire. She married
Jesse Aubrey 7 September 1859 in Brightwaltham
Children were: William Aubrey, Annie M Aubrey, Charles D Aubrey,
Ernest Aubrey,
Arthur Aubrey, Kate Aubrey, Elizabeth Aubrey, Albert F. Aubrey, Clara E.
Aubrey
I understand from Steve & Pat Aubrey that Ann and Jesse had in total sixteen children. Four died of childhood illnesses and a further two as a result of accidents in adulthood. A further son was killed in 1917 on the third battle of Ypres, (Passchendaele)
In the 1881 CensusAnn is shown as aged 40 living with her husband and children at Old Farm, Bradfield, Berkshire
Graham Smith(1) (2) Date and place of Birth
unknown. He married Sarah Simmonds following her divorce from Brian
Arthur Albert Backhouse
Hilda Grace
Smith was born 26 May 1914 (possibly Bridgewater) and died 15 July 1990.
She married William George Bond (date
and place not yet known).
Children were: Brida Ann Bond
Brida tells me her mother was in service at a Mansion called Maunsell House,
North Newton, Bridgewater. Hilda was the second eldest of eight children and
left a letter that Brida found in a drawer after her passing, detailing a little
of her history. ( Yet again an example of the foresight of the people of that
generation).
She lived in a cottage called Canal Cottage at Ford Gate Nr. Bridgewater.
Elsie C. Snook
Harriett
Mary Snook was born abt. 1865 in Hannington, Wiltshire. She died 20 February 1898.
in the Royal Berks Hospital, Reading of Pyaemia Pneumonia.
The Death Certificate states she was the wife of Ernest Aubrey
a General labourer of Bradfield, Berks and that she was aged 32. The
informant was not her husband but the Chief Resident Surgeon of the Royal Berks
Hospital Reading, H.W.Jackson MB on the 22 February 1898., who also
certified the cause of death. The Registrar was Wm. L. Walker
Source: Certified Copy of an Entry of Death No: 366 in the Registration District
of Reading, 1898 Death in the Sub-district of St Giles in the County of
Reading;. No: DAZ 058194 dated 12 February 2003, Application Number Y
524004.
She married Ernest Aubrey on 29 March1894 in
Bradfield, Berkshire.
Parents were: Herbert Snook
Children were: Stanley EV Aubrey Herbert Aubrey
Information re marriage and death given to me by Pat and Steve Aubrey
Information re birth taken from the 1881 Census, the Christening from the IGI
Batch No: C152671, Dates 1571 - 1877 Source Call No: 1279305. Type: Film
In the 1881 Census Harriett is shown as aged 16 living with her father and
siblings at The Bridge, Hannington,Wiltshire.
Source: FHL Film 1341486, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 2014, Folio 107, Page 12
Herbert
Snook was born abt. 1821 East Knoyle, Wiltshire.
Children were: Harriett M Snook, Emily S Snook, Louisa A Snook, Beatrice F
Snook, Elsie C Snook
Fred H J Snook
In the 1881 Census Herbert is shown as a Widower aged 60 living with his
family at The Bridge, Hannington, Wiltshire. His occupation is a Thrashing
Machine Proprietor
Source: FHL Film 1341486, PRO Ref RG11, Piece 2014, Folio 107, Page 12
Cathleen Sparks(2) was born on 23 Jul 1919.
She was married to Charles Gibbs. Children were: Irene Gibbs.
Grace
Spinks date and place of birth not yet known.
She married Frederick John Backhouse in 1911 at Greenwich and was widowed in 1917
Children were: Frederick Backhouse
Sarah Spratt was
born at Hothfield, Kent about 1651. She married Aufrey
Briggs at Hothfield on 8 September 1672
Children were: John Briggs
Margery Stacey(1) (2) Date and place of birth
unknown. Date and place of death unknown.
Children were: James Yeo, Thomas Yeo , John Yeo, William Yeo, Mary Yeo, Elizabeth Yeo.
Louisa Bryan
Stawell (see entry under Louisa Bryan Backhouse as under)
Louisa Backhouse (maiden name not known) was born abt. 1868 in Bath, Somerset.. She was married to Joseph Backhouse, in Bath, September 1885. Source, Free BMD: Bath, Vol 5c, page 975
Source re Birth: Free BMD, Bath, March 1868, Vol. 5c, page 699
Children were: Adolphus Backhouse
In the 1901 Census she is shown as living at Myrtle Hill, Garnant,
Carmarthenshire, Wales with her husband and son.
Source: RG13, Piece 5108, Folio 138, Page 25, Schedule No: 122
Daniel Blue Stone(1) (2) was born on 13 Feb 1986
in Reigate, Surrey. He was a Schoolboy in 1999 in Leon School, Bletchley.
Parents: Roger Stone and June Claire
Backhouse.
Roger Stone(2) Date and place of birth not known. He was for a
while the partner of
June Claire Backhouse.
Children were: Daniel Blue Stone.
James Swaffer
Date and place of birth unknown. He was married to Mary
Briggs on 29 December 1793.
Nelly
Tabary was born about 1871 probably in France. See entry under Nelly Backhouse
Alice Toye
was born in France abt. 1872. she married Frank H
Adamson date and place not yet known.
Children were: Marie Helen Lydia Adamson
In the 1901 Census Alice is shown as aged 29, residing at 135 Harley
Road, Willesdon, Middlesex with her husband Frank and daughter Marie.
Source RG13, Piece 1216, Folio 12, page15, Schedule No: 82
Arthur William Thompson(2) was born in 1885. He was buried on 21 Feb 1930 in
Charlton Cemetary, Charlton. (53) in the same grave
as William Henry Harrison. He died about 19 Feb 1930 in Bexley
Mental Hospital, Dartford, Kent.(54) I understand
that prior to his illness he was working at the United Glass Blowers in Charlton.
He was married to Edith (Ede) Harrison Date not known. Note from
Brian. Although Aunt Ede's son Cyril is still living (or he was in 1999) I do
not know how to contact him. The entries I am making are from memory and are not
necessarily in the correct name or date order.
Children were: Cyril Thompson, Reginald Thompson, Frederick Thompson